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How To Prepare Yourself to Talk About Adoption

From Carrie Craft,
Your Guide to Adoption / Foster Care.
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Different ways to learn about adoption and prepare yourself for talking about it with those who have been touched by adoption.
Difficulty: Average
Time Required: Life Time to Learn and Update Communication Skills

Here's How:

  1. Before talking about adoption, understand the grief and loss that is a part of the adoption journey.
  2. Know the language and how it evolves and changes. I'm not one for political correctness, but I like to know the different lingo. If I'm unsure, I ask. For example, "do you prefer birthmom or first mom?" Refer to the glossary for more terms and information.
  3. Some do's and don'ts for adults who work with or who are related to newly formed families through international or interracial adoption Cross-Cultural Adoption: The Do's and Don'ts for Grown-Ups is a great article.
  4. Teaching Foster/Adoptive Children How to Respond to Common Questions is up to us as parents. We need to give our children the tools needed to handle themselves out in the world. A very important talk to have with your children.
  5. "Teacher's Guide to Adoption" offers 10 different lessons and may be your answer to understanding adoption and talking about it.
  6. Simple questions to help kids express their feelings and recall memories.
  7. Join an on-line community and find others who are interested in talking about adoption. Meet people who have been where you are and understand the adoption path you are currently following.
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