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What Does It Mean to 'Foster' a Child?

By Carrie Craft, About.com

Question: What Does It Mean to 'Foster' a Child?

I really like how the Webster's II New Riverside Dictionary defines 'foster,' because there is a lot of encouraging that goes with being a foster parent.

Answer:

Being a foster parent also means providing a foster child with new opportunities he may not have had the opportunity to experience without our care.

Being a foster parent means

  • Mentoring birth family and helping the reunification process.
  • Taking a foster child out trick-or-treating for the first time.
  • Showing a foster child their first fire works on a 4th of July.
  • Helping a foster child graduate from high school and set a goal to attend college or a vocational school.
  • Baking a foster child's first birthday cake, even though they're turning eight.
  • Sharing some summer fun with a child who has never ran through a sprinkler.
  • Maintaining connections with a past foster child, who now is parenting her own child and doesn't mind you being a grandparent figure to her child.
  • Encouraging a foster child to rise above the issues of their past and move on with their life.

There are a lot of good things that come along with being a foster parent.

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