Meeting Basic Needs
- Physical - Whenever a child enters our home, after introducing myself, I always ask the child if he is hungry or thirsty. I hope that this sends the message that I care and will take care of him. It also tells him that I will meet his physical need for food. As you begin to foster or adopt children who have been neglected, you will see that food is sometimes a big issue.
- Emotional/Mental - This is also a very emotional time for children, and each child handles it differently. Some kids like to talk while others want some space and time. I usually make myself available by being close but not intrusive. Also, never make a promise you can't keep like, "Yes, we'll see your big brother this weekend," when you have no clue where his big brother is located. Instead ask the child to tell you about his big brother. Asking open questions help you get to know the child and for the child to see you as a caring adult.
