Some foster and newly adopted children have never experienced large family get-togethers or 4th of July celebrations. So, remember:
Explain all the hubbub. Most of our foster children have had limited knowledge about the holidays we celebrate. Teaching them about our country and why we celebrate the 4th of July is part of the fun. Dress them in red, white and blue and set out for a patriotic day.
Warn them about loud noises. Fireworks are beautiful, but also loud. Fireworks sound a lot like gunfire and thunderstorms which may trigger some post traumatic stress. This may also be too much for a child who is easily overloaded or suffers from sensory issues.
Prepare them for large crowds. Are crowds scary for your child? Do they know what to do if they get lost? Do they know your name and contact numbers? Get them ready in case of emergency by practicing basic information.
Go over rules. Establish up front who is allowed to set off the fireworks and how far they need to be from the fireworks. Also, talk over consequences for breaking the rules. Let them know that safety is first, even during fun activities.
Is fire scary for them or an attraction? Keep track of lighters and punks used to set off fireworks. It may not hurt to keep track of fireworks too. You don't want anything to go bang in the night, or on the first day of school, or church on Sunday.
Let them know that it's going to be very smoky. If you have asthmatics or those with allergies remember to bring medication and water to drink and wash out eyes.
The 4th of July is a lot of fun, but could also be over stimulating for some of our kids. Preparation is always a good idea.
