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Adoption/Foster Care: Most Popular Articles

These articles are the most popular over the last month.
How Adult Adoption Works
Is it legal to adopt an adult? Who would choose such an option? How about foreign adults seeking to be adopted into the United States? Here are some reasons for an adult adoption and some reasons why some states are against them.
6 Skills You Should Master Before Becoming a...
Basic foster care skills needed to become a foster parent that does great work with children. Information on being a foster parent, the needs of foster children, and state profiles on agencies.
12 Common Reasons Children Enter Foster Care
There are a number of reasons that bring children into the foster care system.
What Is the Salary for Foster Care?
A quick overview on the perspective of the foster care subsidy as salary.
5 Great Reasons to Adopt a Child
Thoughts on when adopting a child is a good idea.
Caring for Your African American or Biracial...
Learn how to care for African American hair. Simple black hair care tips and steps to caring for African American hair.
How to Write an Incident Report
You should fill out an incident report if an accident happens. Make it as truthful as possible and make sure to include these details.
What You Should Know About Foster Care Subsidies
What is foster care reimbursement? How should a foster care subsidy be utilized within the foster home?
10 Reasons You Shouldn't Adopt a Child
Thoughts on when a motivation to adopt a child may not be in the child or family's best interest.
9 Ways You Can Help Kids in Foster Care
If you are unable to do foster care at this time, what other ways can you help foster children? We have several ideas for you that will help foster children.
How Much Does an Adoption Cost?
A break down of adoption cost by type of adoption. How much does a baby adoption cost? Learn the basics to adoption with this quick lesson in adoption costs.
5 Steps to Prepare for Foster Care
Foster Care can be a very rewarding and rich experience. Being properly prepared is crucial for a successful journey in foster care.
When Others Don't Understand Your Adoptive or...
You are passionate about being an adoptive or foster family. But, that isn't true of everyone. What should you do when others aren't supportive?
9 Things to Consider Before Fostering Children
Points to ponder while deciding on whether or not to be a foster parent. Information about fostering a child.
4 Critical Realities About Adoption
Four Realities about adoption I wish I had known.
What Are the Requirements to Become a Foster...
Areas that a foster care agency may consider before selecting someone to become a foster parent.
Declining International Adoptions
Contrary to popular belief, international adoptions are in decline. There has never been a better time to adopt. The key is being well-informed.
10 Ways to Prepare for Foster Care
Are you looking to foster parent in the future? Prepare now with these ten easy steps of ways to prepare to work with children in need.
Incident Report Form Printable Worksheet
Example of an incident report form for foster and adoptive parents. Use this incident report form when attempting effective written documentation for foster or adoptive record keeping. Page 8.
What Are the Differences Between Foster Care...
Understanding permanency and parental rights when it comes to adoption and foster care.
Are You Really Ready to Adopt a Child?
When deciding whether adopting a baby or child is right, there are many questions to resolve. Consider these common issues before you answer the big one, is adoption right for you and your family?
Foster Care Record Keeping with Printable...
A large part of foster care is maintaining records and documentation. Keep track of foster care records with these printable worksheets and create your own record keeping system with a binder for each foster child and a set of printable worksheets.
What You Should Know About Adoption Home Study
What is an adoption home study? Why is it needed? What does an adoption home study include? Can I be better prepared for it?
Adoption Poems Written by Members of the...
A listing of several poems relating to the topic of adoption written by readers.
5 Steps To Choosing An Adoption Agency
Choosing and adoption agency can be tough. Here are 5 tips to help you make a confident and informed decision.
Can Parents with Terminated Rights Ever Seek...
Can a parent whose rights were terminated seek custody if the child hasn't been adopted yet? An Ohio court examines the limits of terminated parental rights.
Top Adoption Jewelry
Top adoption jewelry can be found on-line for quick adoption gifts. These items make wonderful adoption gifts for the holidays or National Adoption Month, or for your family's special adoption day.
Who Can Be a Foster Parent?
Who can be a foster parent? It's open to almost everyone. Foster parents are needed all over the world. Are you ready to be a foster parent and help a foster child?
9 Great Adoption Gifts
What would make a great adoption gift for someone who is an adoptive or foster parent? How about a birth parent? Try some of these ideas when needing the perfect adoption gift! Great ideas for adoption gifts for National Adoption Month, Mother's Day or Father's Day!
Child Discipline Techniques for Foster or...
Learn ways to discipline a child that is in foster care or been adopted from foster care.
The Challenges of Being a Foster Parent
Thoughts on how foster care can be challenging including links to more resources on how to deal with the challenges.
How to Prepare for Respite
Sometimes foster parents just need a break and respite can be a great option. Find tips on how to prepare for respite weekends for foster children.
What Is Respite Foster Care?
Learn more about respite foster care and how it can help serve foster children in need.
Top 10 Five Minute Bonding Activities
Fast and easy bonding activities to help build a connection between you and your foster or adopted child. Here are 10 five minute bonding activities to try at home.
Hosting an Adoption Baby Shower
An adoption baby shower is a great way to welcome a new child into the family. Learn more about hosting an adoption baby shower and how to make the event special for the whole family.
Adoption Poems About Birth Mothers
Mother and birthmother poems about the love birth mothers have for their placed children. Also, find a listing of other birth mother adoption poems.
Adoption Grants and Loans May Help with the...
The cost of adoption can scare many prospective adoptive parents away. Here is a guide to organizations that offer adoption grants and loans to families.
Complete a Foster Care Adoption
Many adoptive parents choose foster care adoption. This is a great way to help the thousands of children who wait in foster care for years.
Babies, Toddlers and Preschoolers: Things to...
They may be cute, but are you sure you're ready to accept more than one baby or toddler foster placement at a time?
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Black Hairstyles for Foster or Adopted Children
When I provided respite foster care for my best friend's foster children, I was completely intimidated by the upkeep of their black hairstyles. Find easy and less intimidating black hairstyles for your foster or adopted children.
Top 10 Questions to Ask When Called to take a...
When a foster parent gets a call to take in a new foster child, it can be a bit overwhelming. Foster parents know they should ask certain questions, but they seem to leave our minds. Here are a list of basic questions that foster parents can ask social workers when they get a call about a foster child being placed in their home.
Single Women and Adoption: Overcoming Stereotypes
More single woman are turning toward adoption as an option to bring children into their lives. Negative social stigma is just one of the challenges for those who choose single parent adoption.
Find the Perfect Adoption Baby Shower Game
Here are several baby shower game ideas and tips for those adoption baby shower hosts and hostesses. Many of these options may require your creative touch to ensure that these baby shower games are adoption friendly and fun.
7 Ways to Afford the Cost of Adoption
One of the major reasons people don't pursue adoption is the cost of adoption, especially international adoption. Many every day people have added to their family through adoption without going flat broke. Here are a few ways to help with adoption costs
How to Write a Court Report
Foster parents often have important information that needs to be shared with the court system. Writing a court report may be scary, but an important task as a foster parent.
The Advantages and Disadvantages of Baby...
Not every prospective adoptive parent is about the cute babies that are available for adoption. Some prefer an older child adoption. Learn a few reasons why.
Legally Free
What Does it Mean When a Child Is Legally Free for Adoption? A definition for the adoption term, legally free for adoption.
Foster Care 101
Everything you ever wanted to know about foster care, being a foster parent, or becoming a foster parent. Know that regulations differ from state to state and country to country, but the basics and needs of the children are very much the same.
Why Do Some Foster Children Have to Endure...
Many foster children bounce from foster home to foster home due to disruptions. Here is a list of common reasons foster parents disrupt on placements.
What Is an Adoption Subsidy?
What is an adoption subsidy? How is it determined if a child qualifies for adoption assistance?
What Is Foster and Adoptive Parent Training...
Information on the foster and adoptive parent training class.
What Is an Adoption Welcome Party?
Most every new parent, especially moms, look forward to their baby shower. But what about adoptive parents who are adopting a child older than an infant? That's when the host or hostess would throw an adoption welcome party. Learn more about hosting the perfect welcome party.
6 Things Gay Couples Should Know About Adoption
Gay adoption information for gay and lesbian couples interested in expanding their families.
What Are the Steps to Family Reunification...
Social workers develop a plan to help families reunify. Learn the basics to a family reunification plan for children in the foster care system.
What Is PS-MAPP Foster Parent Training Class?
PS-MAPP is just one foster parent training curriculum utilized by foster agencies to help prepare families for working with foster children and birth families.
First Few Weeks Home with a New Adopted Child
The first few weeks with a new foster or adopted child is very stressful. Here are few topics to focus on first.
Once You've Decided That Adoption Is Right for...
Making the decision to place your baby for adoption will be one of the most difficult decisions of your life. Once you've decided that adoption is right for your baby, what do you need to think about? What is the expectant mother and soon to be birth mother's next steps toward a baby adoption?
How to Know When a Waiting Child Is Not a Good...
Points when considering if a child is the right child for your family. Tips on how to tell if an adoption match is not the right fit.
How to Create a Safety Plan
How to create a safety plan when children have unsafe behaviors within your home.
Top 8 Foster Care Adoption Blogs
My top picks of family foster care blogs. Find families who do foster care adoption as well as straight family foster care. Bloggers include lesbian and gay foster parent to foster dads to foster parents of gay teens. This is a diverse group with knowledge to share.
How to Find Someone
Many are interested in how to find someone separated by adoption and foster care. Here are a few resources to help find someone.
Establishing Yourself as a Parent
When adopting an older child, establishing yourself as a parent can be a daunting task, especially if you are a first time parent or a younger person. Here are some tips to help.
Understanding Grief and Loss in Children
Children in adoption or foster care, experience the grief and loss of their birth families and much more. Learn more about the grief and loss of foster or adopted children.
How to Explain a Move to a Child in Foster Care
One of the hardest tasks as a foster parent is to tell a child in foster care that he is moving to a new foster home. Learn a few tips to help you with this emotional task.
Identity Crisis of Adoption and Foster Care
There is a crisis that often occurs inside adoptive and foster families. We need to be proactive at addressing the identity crisis of the whole family!
Can an Adult From a Foreign Country be Adopted...
Can an Adult From a Foreign Country be Adopted into the United States?
Single Woman Adoption Requirements for China
China has a new policy for a single woman adoption program. This program focuses on matching special needs children with single woman. Learn more about single woman adoption.
Why Does International Adoption Take So Long?
International Adoption is a lengthy process. Here's a look at the reasons why that is true.
Domestic Adoption Costs
The costs involved with completing a domestic adoption.
What Not to Put into a Foster or Adopted...
While it all may be part of a child's life story, but are there some things that are best left out of a lifebook? Yes.
Safety Plan Printable Worksheet
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets. Page 7.
Completing an Adoption from China
A quick walk through about the Chinese adoption requirements, which are laid out as well as information on the needed adoption paperwork.
How Do I Obtain My Non-identifying Information...
A very important first step in an adoption search towards is to access your non-identifying information from your adoption records. How each State handles adoption records varies. Learn how your State handles this very important information.
6 Reasons People Adopt
How to take the motivation to adopt and make a decision for you and your family.
Book Review: The Lost Boy
The Lost Boy by Dave Pelzer review
What to Expect During a First Meeting with a...
Learn what to expect when going to a first visit with a child you hope to adopt.
Adoptive Parent Andy Griffith
Andy Griffith was an adoptive father of two children. Learn more about this famous adoptive parent.
What Is an Adoptive Mother?
Who are adoptive mothers? What traits do they possess? What does it take to be an adoptive mother?
Steps to a Step Parent Adoption
Learn the basic steps to completing a step parent adoption. Contacting an adoption lawyer is a good first step as each State handles step parent adoptions differently.
10 Steps to Creating a Lifebook for Your Foster...
How to create a lifebook for your child.
Comparing the Pros and Cons of Domestic and...
Deciding between an international adoption or a domestic adoption is a big decision. What are the pros and cons of an international or a domestic adoption?
Learn How to Be a Great Foster Parent in 5 Weeks
Five weeks of lessons to help sharpen your foster parenting skills. Topics include working as a part of a professional team in case plans, helping family reunification, understanding the grieving foster child, discipline, culture, and lifebooks.
How to Become a Foster Parent
While each state is different in the trainings offered and requirements mandated for foster homes, the starting point is basic enough that we can come up with a quick list of steps to take toward becoming a foster parent.
How Does Providing Foster Care Affect Children...
When deciding on whether or not to become a foster parent, it's important to consider the impact foster children will have on your home and children.
The Cottage
A woman shares some experiences from when she lived in a group home for teens.
Understanding Each Role within a Foster Care...
A brief description of each main role within a foster care agency and how foster parent scan best work with each staff member.
What Is a Safety Plan?
What is a safety plan and why are they used within foster homes?
Before You Start the Adoption Process
Before you take the first steps into the adoption process you may want to understand a bit of the adoption lingo that you will hear. What is an adoption homestudy? What is a dossier? How should I choose my adoption agency? There is a lot to consider when diving into the adoption process of an international or domestic adoption.
What Does It Mean to Foster a Child?
Fostering a child brings about heartfelt experiences and nurturing moments that remain long after a child leaves the foster home.
What is an Adoption Search Angel?
How to get started searching with an Adoption Search Angel. Check to see if there is a free adoption search angel available in your area of search.
Adopting a Child from Haiti
The basic requirements as stated by Haitian law when considering Haiti adoptions.
Meeting Your New Foster Child
Learn some tips on how to handle the first meeting and day one with your new foster child.
Should You Take a Foster Child with You on...
Plan a needed break this summer with a family vacation, but should foster children go with you? Consider these points when deciding whether to include a foster child in your family vacation plans this summer.
Kara's Adoption Reunion Story
Adoption reunions are not always a happy time. Sometimes birth family doesn't want to meet the adoptee. Sometimes an adoptee has no where else to turn.
Discounted Airfare for Adoption Travel
Do research before purchasing airfares offered through adoption fare programs to make sure that they are the best deal for international adoption travelers.
Unwed Fathers: How to Prevent Your Child's...
Legal information and how-to's for fathers to preserve their father's rights to be either a part of the adoption process or parent their child. Learn more about protecting a father's right to be a part of the adoption process.
Why Reflecting and Paraphrasing Are Important...
Further explanation of two different communication skills that foster or adoptive parents may utilize within their homes.
What Is an Adoption Search Angel?
Learn more about how to become an Adoption Search Angel and what to expect from utilizing a volunteer. Also find an available listing of search angels.
CASA Volunteers Advocate for Children
CASA volunteers or court appointed special advocates, speak out for children. These volunteers are everyday citizens who take time to advocate for children in court.
One Birth Mother's Open Adoption Story
This is the story of one birth mother making the most difficult decision of her life; to place her infant in an open adoption. Here she shares her struggles and emotions that she went through, and still goes through as a birthmother in an open adoption situation.
Adoption Poems for Adoptive Parents
Adoption poems about adoptive parents, mostly written while waiting for an adoption finalization or waiting for an adoption referral.
What to Teach Your Child to Prepare Them for a...
How to prepare your children for foster care as well as welcome new foster and adopted children into your family.
Considering Interracial Adoption
Is an interracial adoption for you and your family? What are some things to consider before making your final decision on an interracial adoption?
How to Better Understand the Profiles of...
Learn more about the different needs of children waiting for an adoptive home. Are these needs you can help meet for a child?
First Few Weeks Home with a New Foster Child
One of the most often asked questions I get hit with after teaching a new batch of foster and adoptive
3 Ways To Tell Your Story
As an adoptive or foster parent you have a unique story to share with others. Here are 3 creative ways to tell your story.
Foster Care Printable Worksheets
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets.
Racism, Adoption and Our Kids
As a transracial, adoptive family we must be proactive. In light of the current cultural struggles here in America, we cannot avoid discussing racism.
Why Choose an Open Adoption?
While it can be a tricky arrangement, an open adoption is often in the child's best interest. Here are a few pros and cons to choosing an open adoption.
Domestic Public Agency Adoptions
A breakdown of the different costs associated with a domestic public agency adoption.
Foster Care Basics
The basic questions regarding foster care and the foster care system are answered.
How Many U.S. Children Have Gay Parents?
How many children are being raised by gay parents? Read up on interesting gay parenting statistics in the United States.
Searching for Birth Parents and the Adoptive...
So, your child is searching for birth parents. Should an adoption reunion always be bad news for adoptive parents? Some adoptees and birth parents feel that adoptive parents have no place in an adoption reunion. How would you feel if your child was searching for birth parents?
Using the Wrong Products
Using the right products on African American hair is very important as it needs special care.
5 Steps to Prepare Your Family for Adoption and...
Preparing your family for adoption and foster care is important. The children you will help will be best served in healthy families.
Things to Do This Summer for Your Foster or...
Ideas for things to do to help keep your foster or adoptive kids busy during breaks from school. These fun activities may save your sanity and give kids things to do this Summer.
How to Be a Great Foster Parent
Great foster parents know that being great means utilizing different child discipline techniques to manage challenging behaviors. Learn more about being a great foster parent and how to best help foster children with their behaviors through child discipline.
Foster Care Medication Printable Worksheet
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets. Page 5.
What Are the Five Love Languages?
Utilizing the five love languages may be a wonderful way to build attachment and bonding within your newly adoptive or foster family.
What Does the Term 'Aging Out' Mean?
: The term 'aging out' is often used to refer to children within the state foster care system who are
Child Abuse Risk Factors
What are the common causes or risk factors of child abuse? Why would anyone abuse his/her own child?
Amended Birth Certificate
What is the difference between an amended birth certificate and an original birth certificate?
Adoptive Parents
A definition of the term adoptive parent.
One Birthmother's Open Adoption Story
This is the story of one birth mother making the most difficult decision of her life; to place her infant in an open adoption. Here she shares her struggles and emotions that she went through, and still goes through as a birthmother in an open adoption situation. Page 2.
How to Complete an International Adoption from...
What are the first steps to beginning an international adoption? What paperwork do you need? Learn the basic steps to proceed with an international adoption from a non-Hague Convention country.
How to Set Up a Closet & Bedroom for an...
Learn how to prepare for foster parenting or adoptive parenting.
10 Things to Do Before Sending a Foster or...
Are you ready to send your foster children back to school? Do you know how to enroll a foster child into school? While every school is different the same information is needed. Are there other things to consider in getting ready to start a new school?
Respite Foster Care Printable Worksheet
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets. Page 6.
Write a Post Adoption Report
How to write a post adoption report. Post adoption reports are mainly required after an international adoption.
Famous Adoptive Parent - Angelina Jolie
Information on famous adoptive parent, Angelina Jolie. Not only is she a popular film star, but a humanitarian who does good work across the globe to help make life better for children. Angelina Jolie is also in a relationship with Brad Pitt, they have a child together.
What to Look for in Adoption Agencies
What should you look for in good adoption agencies? What things should you look out for? Read the experiences of birth and adoptive parents who have worked with both good and bad adoption agencies.
Foster Care Contact Information Printable...
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets. Page 2.
What Is the Foster Care System?
What is the foster care system and what does it mean when a child enters the system?
Non-identifying Information
What is non-identifying information? Why is it important part of adoption records? Can I access my adoption records in order to gain my non-identifying information?
Teaching Foster or Adopted Children How to...
It's important that we teach our foster or adoptive child how to answer questions that school children can ask about being adopted or in foster care. It's also important for the kids to know how to keep things private and not to tell too much information at school. Prepare for back to school with the use of cover stories and knowing how to answer the hard questions that some school children can ask.
12 Prayer Requests for Children in Foster Care
The following article is a list of needs to keep in our prayers when we consider foster children, their families, and the foster families and workers that serve them.
Preparing to Parent the Adopted Child
Don't walk into an international or domestic adoption blind, prepare to be a parent. Learn a few key elements from the following list of ideas and thoughts on preparing to parent an internationally adopted, foster care adoption or domestic adopted child.
Book Review: Red Thread Sisters
A young adoptee from China promises to find an adoptive family for her best friend who has been left behind in an orphanage.
Monthly Foster Care Printable Worksheet
Free foster care printable worksheets for foster parents. It's helpful to keep track of different foster care information with printable worksheets. Page 4.
What Is Family Visitation Within the Foster...
Understanding the process of family visitation and how it works within the foster care system.
My Reunion Story
The story of when I found out I had a big sister.
Adoption Search Angel Listing for the United...
A listing of the About.com Adoption Search Angels. These volunteers help find members of family separated by adoption.
Is Adoption a Choice for Your Unborn Child?
What are the reasons for and against placing a child for adoption? Things to think about for both the expectant/unwed mother and expectant/unwed father.
What Is The Adoption Assistance and Child...
Information and goals of The Adoption and Child Welfare Act of 1980. Public Law 96-272 brought about major changes to help children and families remain strong and intact.
How Will Fostering a Child Impact My Daily Life?
You may be very excited to become a foster parent, but remember there will be changes to your daily life once you begin fostering a child.
21 Foster Parenting Truths
A veteran foster parent shares some truths that he has come to accept after doing foster care for 17 years.
Confidential Intermediary
Adoption searches sometimes require the use of a Confidential Intermediary (CI). What is a CI?
Best Ideas on How to Complete a Lifebook for...
Ideas on what to include and how to balance the good and the bad for your foster or adopted child's lifebook.
10 Things to Do to Help Find Family Separated...
I asked the adoption search angels here on About.com on what they would tell a searcher to do when trying to find family separated by adoption. They were all very clear on the first steps and had specific advice for those searching. Here are some things you can do first to find family members.

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